Monday, November 29, 2010

PTA

yesterday 28 nov at 16.30pm ada parents teacher meeting for tareq school.basically d teachers all say the same thing: he cant sit still, always moving around. yes i can imagine that :) so he needs abit special attention or else he will start scribbling his books.But although he is moving around/ not concentrating but seems like what has been taught enters his head.Teacher Ms Fernanda who is teaching him science says he likes things that uses his hand. All teachers says that he is not the talkative type, early in the school beginning he barely talk but now he is ok but still not the talkative type but always talking to himself too.he mingle well with his peers and Alhamdulillah he is not the agressive type.Although he didnt speak arabic but he understand instruction in arabic.Alhamdulillah.

May Allah makes things easy for u anakku, ibu knows its not easy to be put in school at such young age and environment which is 100% different from what u used to have, but again May Allah makes your life yassir wa la tu assir.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

win 100 carefour

salam semua...

semalam merupakan lucky day for me or maybe adik but actually my hubby..hukhukhuk..im selected as one of the lucky carefour customer yg get back home with free shopping items..hohoho..groceries dalam OR36 or almost rm360...but still a bit blurr mase time it happen..so x lah gumbira mcm out of this world..and of course the word IF ONLY dok berlegar kat kepala..IF ONLY i take this n that n that..huhuuu...bisikan shaytan yg memang x nak kite ni jadik org yg bersyukur...so..kawe..just manage to make a big smile jerr ..n still mc x caya ada gak......as kaweni bukan yg jenis lucky...masuk peraduan x pena menang..but ada sekali on TMnyer ..dpat tshirt..but of curse yg selalu kite mimpi n  harap is to dapat kete mase peraduan petronas ..but huhuu...anway alhamdulillah for all..rezk for my husband as its his money yg i bawak baaaa...

on adik,
adik finished his 5 days IV last sat..now on4th day oral antibiotics...alhamdulillah again as yesterday dia dah pandai to telan the medcine without sembur or muntahkan everthingely which stresses me n hubby as now kami nak make sure he completely recover.....but still d process nak masukkan dalam mulut susah as he still katip gigi dia..but with kisses n pujukan n kisses again dia giv in gak...bravo anakku....inshaAllah u will learn to take medcine as easily as your brother.Ameen.

as for abang..he start coughing again yesterday...sigh....ibu tak happy to have this cycle of abang adik abang adik sakit..so im starting on honey n habatussaudah for u nite n morning...alhamdulillah today u did not cough mase nak tido...Ya Allah protect my children from any harm and keep them save and afiat always....Ameen Ya Rabb

on abang milestones reading juzuk amma.....he is now memorizing 6 surah from d last pages of d Quran...seems like what d school is teaching him (3 surah in 2 months)stays stronger then what i taught him..although ive started the process way earlier then d school..i wonder whats their techniq or is it perhaps learning ramai2 is better n more fun then alone..or me not good teacher..huhuuhu..anway i still berpegang to the word lets us the monther be the first to teach them..not the teachers.....and abag is expected to memorize these few sentences for the school citizenship day

Oman is a beautiful country
Omani people are nice n friendly
Oman is a safe place
We love Oman.

we the parents are invited to this citisenship day celebration..i just wonder if abang will perform something..inshaAllah kalo ada rezki ibu will come n see u at school.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

ibu ibu engkaulah ratu hatiku

today is d official day for imran saying aloud BUU directed to me solely..alhamdulillah...n of course 3 days ago...dr say he has severe viral infection (very severe wheezing can be heard from his nose) so now undergone antibiotic course thru IV and of course nebulizer...preferred him not to be admitted....n he seems progressing better....alhamdulillah for all...n yesterday is eid adha here..so eid mubarak to semua pips out there

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

semangat

harini  baca again blog on darwish n darwsyah...mmm ada balik semangat nak ngajar abang n adik quran /iqra reading n memorizing...but only Allah can make it happen..Ya Allah aku panjangkan doa agar Kau make it easy for me to mendidik anak2ku...make it easy for me Ya Allah..open up Myheart and show me the space Ya Allah....Astaghfirullah for all my shortcoming....and i will try to do entry so as to menaikkan semangat and also jot down everything happen in my life..ourlives ..so as to abadikan memory yg indah dan yg tak seberapa indah but signifikan

abang x g school

okt 25th...today 1st time abang tak g school...last nite demam mencecah 39.5deg ..and heavy cough..went to see dr in the morning. he say just mild red tonsil...but the next 5 days his condition up and down..but the concern is demam still tak kebah..dah 5 days..if in malaysia dah mula suspect danggi...as dia chill at night and demam pun occured mostly at night....anway day 7 bawak g dr again..and now dr say ada chest/viral infection kat paru2..ada wheezing noise...mmmm..so another antibiotic 5 more days...but he is better now with the medcine...Alhamdulilllah..but ibu sent him to school on saturday but yet sunday keep him at home as demam lagi the night before and of course he cant open his eye the next day...rehat lah ya abangku..

Saturday, October 2, 2010

the coming of the adik

 so oklah..then i rmber i left him with maid to go for my preggy check up kat hospital in KL.Selalunyar i never leave him..memang angkut ke hulu kehilir with my maid..but then sebab dia  tak sihat and i reckon its gonna be a short visit ( pagi2 dah kuar umah nak dapat q 1st) so tinggal lah dia.

But then in the hospital dapat satu bombshell news....Dr said you hav placenta previa type 3...and u hav to be admitted.Memang terkebil kebil mata i ketika tuu.....but fisrt that came in mind is who will look after my child?.......dunia macam berpusing very slowly although my head already thinking fast on how to adjust to this situation now.After discussion wit husband we agreed that we move to parents house which is nearer to the hospital so that abang can at least visit me everyday. so si abang

Friday, October 1, 2010

My strong little abang

Bingkisan ini ingin ibu abadikan untuk diri dan sekiranya di izin Allah untuk tatapanmu Abang .. ketika si abang sakit...

At that time it was just abang alone..belum ada adik lagi...adik masih dalam kandungan 6month if im not mistaken.Abang demam, flu, cough on off but yang pasti his throat/mouth smells. Still rmber Dr kat klinik kata biase as tonsil dia bengkak.Tapi ibu tak puas hati, as the smell is really bed and ibu can see white spot on your tonsil area....so during  visit to parents house pergi sekali hospt govt for check up and Dr sana agree your tonsil really inflamed and dah ada puss so you have to be admitted.Since it was weekend we hav to wait for Dr ENT oncall and he also agrees abang have to be admitted sebab ibu say abangni susah bangat with oral medicament sedangkan antibiotic needed asap.

The first sign of bravery of my little abang...nurse kat ER cube carik line...take quite awhile...but managed Alhamdulillah...n abang nangis sikit not becos of the pain but becos of the nurses yg surrounding him.Dia dah selalu sgt sakit that he got scared dengan Dr and Nurses.And since there is a shortage of bed..we hav to wait awhile before being transfered to the paed ward and because of no other choice kami ditempatkan together wit children yg mostly maybe keracunan makanan ataupun dehydrate sebab muntah2 and diarea.

Abang seems better after the 1st dose of antibiotik thru IV. Dr reckon 5 days/ 5 dosage of antibiotik..so the first 2 days/1night was ok..you seems better and adapting well to the hospt environment.Then on the 2nd night ...something terrible happen...ibu saw tangan abang bengkak...i reckon the IV needle dah terkeluar and the antibiotic/water accumulate kat surrounding rather then goes to the bloodstream, anway called the nurse and depa bukak the needle.ibu guess mase abang tido.. lasak sgt n that thing not secured enuf to withold his gatal hand yang keep rubbing it away sebab tak selesa. Anway since the morning after is monday and the clinic is open..then we were brought to the Dr room..and another line have to be find untuk IV for the continuation of the antibiotik. the Dr took about 40min! nak carik line as he say my little abang has a very fine veins....from his other hand (yang satu still bengkak) to arm then dr go to the leg area then check again the palm/hand area...jentik2 sapu sana sini akhirnya alhamdulilAllah dapat jugak Dr pasang satu line kat another hand. and all that while how brave my son is...imagine 40min being surrounded by the dr and his pembantu ...All i can do is comfort him and pray hard that Allah will make things easy.

Day 3 and day 4 berjalan dengan bagusnyaa and si abang is not like a sick child anymore and no more smell coming from his mouth...and dr say if all goes well he can be discharge the next day.But then that afternoon sebab dia lasak sgt and happily main with other children.his IV  needle sekali lagi tercabut!!!!....masha Allah...punya lah tak tau nak kata apa as ibu knows the egony untuk dapat line...but then ibu agree untuk bagi mouth administered antibiotic/augmentin as its only for another 2 more doses. But then that night after the augmnetin being administered,  abang muntah-muntah...then diarea...and it gets worst throughout the night but Dr tak ada.

Ibu rase next day was sabtu..ada Dr round but Dr from paed ward..not ENT....Dr oncall came only later in the afternoon....the Dr seems lost as dunno what can be the cause of your muntah2 n diarea..maybe the augmentin....although ibu reckon its the surrounding...my abang have been infected with the virus of other patient yg muntah2..yet the Dr didnt do anything yet except  paracetamol becos temperature abang also escalate...Ibu start to get agitate...dok tidak puas hati with what happening ..terase Dr tak buat apa2 untuk membantu..w/pun kita berada di hospital tetapi tak ada siapa datang membantu mengurangkan kesakitan abang muntah2 and diarea. Ibu mula rase stress..and Baba memujuk agar ibu tabah and sabar tetapi ibu terasa sangat sangat stress dan tidak berpuas hati kerana Dr seperti tidak membuat immediate action.Anway later that night Dr say he will send his fren yang working in neonatal ward to see abang and help to find the line for IV if needed.. She came abit late ..but ibu like the way she deal with the situation.

She talk slowly n calmly n ibu ask her opinion if its better to put again the line for IV. She say she undertsand ibu agony in putting abang again to find the line(already  been 5 Dr including her yang akan cube find the line so far)...and she also point out that abang is not really in that dehydrated situation (as abang still indded breastfeed but then throw out again later)

Anway ibu decided we should discharge ourselves and ibu will look after you at home better..away from the virus at the hospital...and go to private hospital in which inshaallah we will be better treated if needed.Dr ENT was sayaing he agree to discharge us provided we go to private hospital..not home treatment. We stay in Ampang for 1 night....abang temp back to normal less vomitting but still diarea. We went back to Shah Alam  the next day and ibu xplain to the Dr there what had happen for the previous 6 days. He agree to put abang in ward but no medication will be aminstered except that he ask ibu to give you ths soya milk really rather then cow's milk.Katanyer your usus dah usus dah really thin n cant tolerate lactose that whay u keep having diarea.So all that is needed is to persuade you to drink 3oz evey 2 hr without you vomitting back. kalo tak boleh then kena masuk drip.Abang manage to drink without vomitting back..alhamdulillah..

Tuesday, September 28, 2010