Monday, August 13, 2012

1st time fasting in Rmadhan for the big brother

Assalamualaikum to my dear son....

its been a while ibu didn't write in this blog which should be a bit of memory n naseehah and etc for you and your brother once you are old enough or perhaps when ibu is not here anymore.

ibu would love to mencoretkan sedikit memory on your first time ever fasting experience...up till now ramadhan day 25 year 1433  you have fasted 4 days ! masha Allah at age of  5 years 3 months. let ibu write the moments of those four days...

day 1 - you basically flat out...after zohor you have been begging to eat something...from wanting to eat many food you succumb to saying i only want 1 food to eat, of course all the headache..tummy ache..n etc etc..since baba is there of course he will not let you break your fast in any cost... as of ibu it hurts me to see you soo desparate ...we put you to sleep as to let the time pass but i guess u cant sleep as hunger is there...around asar time you beg for only milk...i do not want food just a glass of milk you say....and keep complaining of headache n tummy ache....and of cour about 30min before maghrib you throw out. ibu knows  the hunger and pain is for real but i keep making doa and telling myself nobody ever die of fasting.InshaAllah all khair. by iftar time..you are just to weak to eat anything..but you soon gain the energy and back to yourself by isya...

day 2 - ibu and baba thought that 1 day is enough for you for a start.but then the next day you said you want to fast, so ibu agree to make it a half day fast..eat at zohor/lunch then continue again till maghrib. you were yourself..no complaint of hunger or pain...but then when you saw your little brother ate his lunch..you too insist..and continue normally without hassle till maghrib....its a surprise indeed..

day 3 - baba thought you better fast the whole day today and you agrees....but then since ibu was out...ibu found out that you drank 2 choc drink  at lunch hour after seeing you brother drank his milk. soo ok....we let it pass...the rest of the day went very well too..your energy level is at usual level..

day 4 - you are suppose to fast the whole day today and you manage to pass the luch level..but then  around 3pm you start whining about wanting to eat this and that..ibu ask you to watch the tv and sleep as to forget but you wanted to sit at the kitchen and see ibu cooking. you start asking for menu to eat..hehehe..you asked for Oman noodle..(maggi tomyam actually!) ..then you said you want pasta and you also want pizza with hot dog...so ok..yes..ibu cooks all that and of course you literally waited infront of the oven door and watch the stove to see all the food cooking.you even manage to scoop a ketchup from the pizza sauce and into your mouth as you cant seems to stop the urge to eat....you really went and smell the oman noodle as it was cook and ibu have to keep watching you as not to let you eat literally few minutes before azan maghrib.

so in short it has been a sad and funny moment watching and helping you getting thru your first ever ramadhan. but we never thought you actually manage 4 days...and we still have perhaps another 5 more days before eid..so maybe you will add the numbers of fasting...so mabrook ya my little baba..you did a very good job. ibu is very happy and proud of you..

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